Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Happy Birthday Kaelyn!

Today is Kaelyn's 7th birthday. Wow. When did I become the mother of a 7 year old (yeah, yeah, today - I know)! Crazy. Here is my birthday girl today with her parrot, Annie (who coincidentally has a birthday today LOL).

Kaelyn has become quite the young lady. She is usually so polite to people we meet and is still as boisturous and talkative as she always has been. She loves all things Star Wars, High School Musical, and movie oriented. I'm constantly amazed at how much she knows and how quickly she learns. She LOVES math. So much, in fact, that we have to save it for the end of the "school day" as a reward for doing all of her other school work. She is slowly but surely starting to read. I KNOW she can read more than she gives herself credit for. Mostly she lacks the confidence and motivation to just do it. So, we're trying to set aside some time that she has to sit and read books. She'll find the motivation somewhere. And once she's ready I'm sure she'll be reading up a storm. She is SO tall. People constantly think she is older than she is - Jeff and I do too sometimes. She still wants "long hair" but we are convinced that her hair will NOT grow past her shoulders. Considering we haven't significantly cut it since she was three I think we have a good argument that it will never be long. She is definately bordering between being a little girl and becoming a "tween". Sometimes she really wants to get down on the floor and play with some of Cooper's baby toys, but sometimes she wants nothing to do with them and thinks they are all boring. She still loves dressing up, building forts, and doing puzzles. She has also recently discovered board games and all things "crafty" which has led to some fun times while Cooper naps. It seems like just yesterday that she was Cooper's age and toddling around. Where does the time go?

One of the things we did for Kaelyn's birthday was to give her a "big girl room". Truthfully, it was time for Cooper to move into a bigger bed and we wanted to give him Kaelyn's old twin bed and move her into a double bed so when she has friends spend the night they have room to both sleep in her bed. So, after only 4 1/2 years in this house we painted over the plaid wall in her room.

Jeff did NOT like that we painted over this wall as it took us so long to paint it in the first place. But, in Kaelyn's words, "I'm not four years old anymore". She wanted a beach themed room. So we decided to paint two walls blue (water) and two walls tan (sand). Thankfully, we found a great comforter with both of those colors in it. We still have a few pictures to put up and a small shelf that will go over her closet to hold all her shells and beach whatnots. But I think you'll all agree that it looks a lot more grown up.


We moved Cooper into his twin bed too and suprisingly he has been doing pretty well going to sleep by himself at naptimes and bedtime. We'll see how it continues! Here's a picture of Coop in his new bed. :)

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Do I have the cutest little boy on the planet or what? Ok, so he needs a haircut, but gosh he's awfully cute.

This week we cleaned out Kaelyn's room so that we can paint it - more details on that will be in another post. :-) While going through her room she found this Etch A Sketch and decided that maybe Cooper would like to play with it. Sure enough. He LOVES the thing. He must have played with it for an hour when we first gave it to him. I was lucky enough to get some very cute shots of him. I'm just loving this age. I love to see him learning new things every single day. What a joy. :-)




Friday, January 16, 2009

Inauguration Day

Ok - before I get to the subject of Inauguration Day I have to write this... this is a pictures of Cooper eating a corn dog.

What is so exciting about a 2 year old eating a corn dog? Well, nothing really. Except that he ate this entire corn dog AFTER eating a whole bowl of peaches, a peanut butter and jelly sandwich and a whole handful of goldfish. I'm SOOOO in for it when he is a teenager.

Anyway, Inauguration Day.... so I have to first of all admit that I didn't vote for Obama. There are a few moral issues that I have with him and his beliefs. But I'm not going to go into that right now. I've made the decision that since he IS our new president (well, he will be in about 4 days) that I'm accepting that and I'm going to be supportive of him. I'm going to be praying for him as he takes over this VERY hard role at a VERY scary time in our country's history. I've also recognized the significance of this particular president. I want my kids (well at least Kaelyn) remember this day. I want them to realize how important it is that we have crossed over into a new world because of Obama's election. We are going to celebrate this day simply because of it's significance. We may not support his stance on certain issues, but we DEFINATELY support our countries choice to elect an African American president. So, we will be watching the Inauguration. I've been talking to Kaelyn a lot in the past day or two about what this all means. I've given her just a very, very small glance into our country's history with racial issues and I've made sure that she knows how very important this inauguration is. Today after we talked more about it she announced that we needed to make hats to wear while we watch this event. So, we picked out our supplies and went to work. Here is the end result....


I hope that you are able to watch this with your children and talk with them about it. Talk about what you believe, talk about what your hopes and fears are for our country. I believe now is the time for my children to start to realize what a great country we live in and how their future is affected by what happens now.

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Money Makeover

Today we had a meeting with a friend of ours (well, of mine) who is a mortgage broker. We've been wanting to refinance our adjustable rate mortgage to get into a fixed one and since the rates are pretty low we wanted to see if we might be able to swing it right now. The overall answer is that we really can't afford the monthly payments with the fixed right now.

Which led me to think about Dave Ramsey and his Money makeover strategies. I wondered if I could get the book from the library and read it to see if it is something that we could swing. As I was on the computer upstairs I thought to myself... "I seem to remember purchasing some book several years ago about money management. I wonder if I still have it?" So, I looked on the bookshelf and sure enough we had Dave Ramsey's Total Money Makeover book sitting right there! I picked up and thought I would glance at it tonight and knowing myself it would be put back on the shelf and nothing would be done. Well, I was totally wrong. I sat down at 4pm and started looking at it, got up around 5:30 to get dinner in the oven, sat down again after dinner and finished reading the ENTIRE book at 9 this evening. Needless to say I was completely engrossed in his strategies.

I'm sold. So.................................. I think over this next week I'm going to start working on our budget so we can get going on this thing!

So for those who know me in real life - start thinking I'm crazy (not that you don't already) because the next couple years are HOPEFULLY going to be insane, but in a good way!

Friday, January 9, 2009

This last week

Wow - I was so good at blogging almost every day! I'm not sure what happened. Sorry about that. :)

Here is what we've done this week.

On Monday (maybe Tuesday???) Cooper helped me make banana (why does that look like it's not spelled correctly?) bread. He was so stinkin' cute!!! Here are some fun pictures of the mess we made.




I made some new "trim cut" versions of my Cooper's Poopers fitted diapers. Here is one on my favorite diaper model. LOL They are kind of nice because they are larger in the thighs and narrower in the crotch which makes for a nice, well, trim fit. :)

Kaelyn also got back to swimming lessons. She is doing amazinly well. It's nice because on Tuesday she was the only person in her class and on Thursday she was only one of two. Hopefully it will stay that way and she'll get some really good one on one attention from her teacher. She is loving it although she always has a hard time getting those "swimming muscles" back when she's been away from it for a little while. But yesterday she actually swam all the way across the width of the pool with only taking ONE breath in the middle. It was great. Hopefully I'll be able to get a video that I took yesterday uploaded here. Ok - maybe I'll upload it later...

The last thing that happened this week was that we got Cooper's new car seat. We bought a First Years True Fit which can rear face to 35lbs (which we plan on doing) and forward face with the harness through 65lbs (which we also plan to do). It's big, but thankfully fits in the car rear facing. The nice thing is that because he is bigger and rear facing it doesn't have to be reclined as far as it would have to be if he was still an infant. So, anyway, here is my "baby" (now 30lb, 25 month old "baby") STILL rear facing. :)

Monday, January 5, 2009

Fashion Mavens

I would never, ever classify my kids as being "in style" or "fashionistas" or really fashion forward in any way. So, for them - this post is as close as they get to being "Fashion Mavens". LOL
First off, Jeff tells me that most boys when they are little know when a cute babysitter is coming over and try to look good for them or impress them. So, this weekend on the spur of the moment actually HIRED a babysitter (for those of you who know me you know how shocking that is that we actually paid someone to watch our kids). We called the sister of some good friends of ours, who thankfully was available for a Saturday evening and Jeff and I got to enjoy dinner out and a movie (Seven Pounds with Will Smith - which was FANTASTIC). Gillian is very cute. She is adorable not only in looks, but in personality too. I don't know one person who doesn't like her - even her brother thinks she's pretty cool. :-) We told Cooper that Gillian was coming over and of course when we mentioned it to Kaelyn she was beyond ecstatic. She "LOVES" Gillian. We gave the kids quick baths before Gillian showed up and when Jeff was getting Cooper dressed after his bath he kept pointing to his little tie. He INSISTED on wearing it. We commented on how cute his tie was, but once Gillian showed up he kept showing her his tie over and over and over again so that she would tell him how cute his was. It was soooooooo funny. We all just laughed and laughed about how much Cooper wasnted to impress Gillian. Here he is all decked out in his tie and wearing mommy's dress shoes. He thought he looked SO good. :-)

On another fashion note, I found a cute little dress pattern that I thought I would make for Kaelyn since I have a break in my cloth diaper business right now. I cut out the dress over the weekend and had some extra fabric so I figured I would make a little head scarf for her to wear. It's so cute! And she loves it too. Hopefully, I'll get the dress done sometime soon and can post the rest of the ensemble.


Sunday, January 4, 2009

The end of the WAHM (work at home mom)

Do you like to buy things from WAHM's (Work at home moms)? Do you like to buy from consignment stores? Do you like to shop garage sales or even have garage sales yourself?

Well, consider February 10th, 2009 as the end of the "recycled" movement in regards to children's products. You can also consider it the end of the small boutique children's business. And in my own case, the end of the WAHM.

I'm cutting and pasting a blog entry from Boutique Cafe because she says it way better than I ever could.

The Sky is Falling - CPSIA Issue
December 17th, 2008
Article by: Heather Flottman
Owner/Designer
liliputians NYC

The sky is falling! Yes, I feel a like an overly dramatic Chicken Little. And I wish it were true considering recent congressional legislation is about to crush the life out of the handmade clothing and toy industry. I’m talking about H.R. 4040, the Consumer Protection Safety Improvement Act (CPSIA) signed into law August 14, 2008, and the ramifications it will have when it goes into effect February 10, 2009 (now being popularly referred to as National Bankruptcy Day).

Make no mistake. CPSIA was necessary in principle and has noble intentions, keeping our children safe and holding companies accountable for importing toxic toys. We all demand safety for our children and this is the intent of CPSIA; specifically to ensure safe levels of lead and phthalates in all products manufactured for children under the age of 12. Unfortunately this legislation lacks common sense, is ambiguous and fails to take into account the handmade industry.

What you see is not what you get with CPSIA. There is no distinction between big, small, or even micro one-person businesses. Whether it’s a large-scale manufacturer importing apparel to be sold in big box stores, or a work-at-home mom (WAHM) selling customs on ebay, the legislation applies the same to all.

Unit testing will be required on finished products, regardless if the components are natural materials or if you have documentation from a vendor stating that buttons, for example, are certified lead-free. As it stands, H.R. 4040 fails to recognize that textile products are inherently lead-free. Why then is an organic cotton shirt being tested for lead exactly?

Unit testing is extremely cost prohibitive to small business, but worse, it is unnecessary. In fact, it is completely redundant if the components that comprise the whole have already been tested and due diligence can prove they meet the guidelines.

To put a real dollar amount to testing one of my products, I solicited a lab quote. I was told it was $75 to test for lead per garment component and each substrate. Coated or painted items such as buttons are $100. So my Little Red Riding Hood Shirt, a 100% cotton knit shirt with an appliqué made from 7 cotton fabrics and 2 buttons eyes would cost $625 to test for lead. Flammability testing is also required and is either $50 for a certificate per component stating it meets weight code or $100 for actual testing. So add another $400-$800 for a grand total of $1,025-$1425. in testing costs for a shirt that retails for $40. If the shirt is offered in another colorway, the same testing is required despite the fact that the same fabrics are used throughout.

Small manufacturers have no way of absorbing the price of such redundancy. And all manufacturers will be required to test a finished component/item from each batch. Easy to do in mass production—simply pull one sample from a lot of thousands. But how does one comply when your “batches” are made-to-order batches of one? SKUs will also be required for each product with a permanent label on the item itself.

CPSIA will be retroactive and takes a guilty-until-proven-innocent approach with extremely hefty fines for violators. As written, any product used by children 12 and under (such as toys, footwear, carpets, clothing, bedding, luggage, lamps, toys, books, magazines, baseball cards, consumer electronics, school supplies, office supplies, jewelry, housewares, sports equipment and so on) without the newly required certification would be deemed hazardous, whether the item poses an actual threat or not. So on February 10, 2009, any unsold merchandise (in big box stores, the corner boutique, your fabric stash, Good Will donations, etc.) will be deemed “hazardous goods” and illegal to sell unless 3rd party testing proves otherwise. By the way, there are only 14 said labs currently in the United States.

Think you won’t be affected? I hope not, but the sad truth is that hundreds of thousands (if not millions) will be. Do you make children’s clothing, toys, jewelry, hair bows, accessories, furniture, artwork or anything else “intended for use by children age 12 and under”? Are you a retailer of children’s goods? Do you resell used children’s clothing or toys on ebay? Do you participate or shop at craft fairs? Do you donate used children’s items to needy organizations? Do you belong to a church that has rummage sales as a fundraiser? Does your child play sports and get their uniforms from a local screen print shop? Are you a consumer shopping for alternatives to mass-produced toys? If so, this law takes away that freedom.

Surely this legislation can be amended by incorporating some common sense and still make it possible to ensure our children’s safety without further hurting the US economy. According to the 2002 Economic Census (the last survey of its type), small U.S. clothing manufacturers (with fewer than 20 employees) contribute over $900 million dollars [consider: nearly $1 billion dollars] annually to the economy and comprise 68% of total apparel manufacturing in the U.S. This is clearly a vital and contributing asset to our economy. Multiply this fallout exponentially when you take into account the myriad other manufacturers, retailers and businesses that will be hurt or ultimately driven out of business.

So, why should you support amending this legislation?

Because the CPSIA isn’t fair and will not function as written. It inadvertently punishes American industries unrelated to toys and will ultimately result in fewer alternatives to mass produced merchandise made in China. The concept that small producers should be subject to the same rigorous standards but with lesser regulation (and common sense) has already been fought for and sustained in the food industry, which is why your local farmers market still exists. Now this same idea needs to be applied to children’s products.

What can you do?
1) Email or call the CPSIA - the office of the CPSC ombudsman 888-531-9070.
http://www.cpsc.gov/cgibin/newleg.aspx
Comments on Component Parts Testing accepted through January 30, 2009.
mailto:Sec102ComponentPartsTesting@cpsc.gov.

2) Email or snail mail your representatives.
http://capwiz.com/americanapparel/issues/alert/?alertid=12274476

3) Call your representatives. For their contact information just enter your zip code.
http://capwiz.com/americanapparel/dbq/officials/

4) Make your voice heard by voting on this issue. The top 3 in each category will be presented to President-elect Obama.
http://www.change.org/ideas/view/save_handmade_toys_from_the_cpsia

5) Sign the petition.
http://www.ipetitions.com/petition/economicimpactsofCPSIA/index.html

6) Spread the word! Write about this on your blog. Tell others about this issue and encourage them to do the same.

7) Join others in fighting this cause.
Facebook group
Twitter search
http://cpsia-central.ning.com/notes/Notes_Home

Join the etsy community in the virtual chat with CPSIA Small Business Ombudsmen or send a handmade children’s item that will become “hazardous goods” as of 2/9/09 to Bobby Rush, founder of H.R. 4040.
http://www.etsy.com/storque/craftivism/handmade-childrens-items-unintended-consequences-consumer-pr-3056/
Etsy Thread

9) Read more about this legislation and its ramifications:
Fashion Incubator

Handmade Toy Alliance

National Bankruptcy Day

YouTube video

YouTube Video

YouTube Video

5 Minutes for Mom

Cool Mom Picks

The Smart Mama

blogher

Apparel and Footwear.org

Toy Association.org

Cafe Mom

Safety and Compliance

Zrecommends

SleepingBaby.net

Freshly Baked Blog


PLEASE CHECK OUT THE LINKS ON HER BLOG (there is a link to it when you click on her blog name above). I can't figure out how to copy and paste it with all the links attached, but there are a TON of them. Please pass this information on to everyone you know. Some people think they won't be affected, but everyone who shops consignment, holds garage sales, or buys anything for any child in their life will be affected!

Thanks so much.

Friday, January 2, 2009

I wasn't expecting that.

We live in Western Washington. I'm TOTALLY guessing here, but I would say more winters we can get around 7-10" of snow during the winter. Of course, that usually is spread out through the ENTIRE winter and never all at one time. Well, this winter we have already gotten - at our house - around 12-14" of snow. Which is 12-14" too much for me. I am NOT a snow person. I love watching my kids play in it, but I hate having to clean up when they are done. I don't like to be too cold or too hot (which is usually perfect for living in the northwest). I don't like driving in the snow - even with my 4 wheel drive vehicle. It's just a pain all around. So, when I unexpectedly awoke to THIS outside my window this morning... well, needless to say I was not pleased. Oh well, it could be worse, right?
On another subject, Cooper went to bed last night around 8:30pm and promptly woke up at 9:30pm. And he was WIDE awake. No way that kid was actually going back to sleep. So, we brought him downstairs to snuggle with us while we watched a movie. Which actually turned out to be fine. He sat in the chair with me the whole time and then at 11pm we all went upstairs and went back to bed. Anyway, as you can tell by the picture below, I don't think he actually got enough sleep. Not sure why I'm thinking that.... :-)

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Stimulating the Economy

I thought I would start off the New Year doing some good for others. So I decided to help stimulate the economy. :-) My wonderful parents somehow got talked into watching my kids for a couple hours while I ran away to the mall and spent some Christmas money. For those of you who don't know, I LOVE shopping. It is like therapy for me. Anytime I can shop I come home feeling so much better about life. Sad, I know. And I love a bargain. Anytime I can find something cheap, shopping is even MORE fun!

Today I found some good deals. I got a pair of brown corduroy pants, a green "dressy" tshirt, a black shirt, and a cute little red sweater, plus 2 pairs of brown shoes for only $100! Awesome, huh?! I was so excited. Anyway, here are some pictures of my fun finds. :-)